Perfectly Imperfect

The goal is not to be perfect; the goal is to be accepted for the imperfections.

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Home Remedy – Egg Hair Mask

Benefits of the ingredients:

Eggs – rich in Vit A, D, and E. Also rich in protein, fatty acids, and sulfur. These properties are great for hair in restoring shine and lustre, strengthening hair shaft and hair loss prevention.

Cider vinegar – Rich in potassium (hair growth). It also repairs damaged hair by restoring the protective layer on hair strands. Cider vinegar also cleanses the scalp of chemicals built-up and aids scalp to breathe and opens the pores in the skin.

Olive Oil – Rich in antioxidants that reduces damage to hair caused by chemicals or styling products. Olive oil has been used for centuries as a natural hair conditioner as it makes hair shiny and soft. It also has anti fungi and antibacterial properties to fight off dandruff and other conditions.

Coconut oil – very nourishing, and due to the molecular structure, it reconditions the dry and damaged hair very effectively. The capric acid, vitamin E, and lauric acid aid in restoring the hair’s vitality and strength.

Rosemary EO – commonly used to stimulate hair growth and hair health.

Bring Out the Viking in You

It’s hard to have a high self-esteem when we were always criticised and punished during the formative years. I would never dream of even trying to reach for the cloud, let alone the stars. Now? I feel that even the skies is not a limit, the only limit is myself.

I fight, not (just) because I have a condition. I fight, because I am worth fighting for. I fight, for me. I fight, to live this hard life to the fullest.

So, maybe Viking is a strong character, I don’t really know what Vikings were capable of, but I know they fight hard and they fight till the end. Fight by all means, but choose your fight wisely. If I lived in the medieval period, I may choose to die fighting. I would be named an honourable hero(ine), and legacy be left in my name. Don’t get me wrong, I definitely swear by the spirit and morality, but alas, this is not that time, and I will uphold the integrity and moral values, but practicing it in full strength will kind of waste and insult my (mere average) intelligence, no?

Picking up the broken pieces

Often times, we thought of broken heart as one of the most inconsolable pains in human experiences. I won’t refute that. I realised that it is not the moment when your heart was broken that is most painful; it is the picking up the pieces that hurts most.

Pain has a way to distort our rational thoughts. Shall I say, cognitive dissonance? What we know is that the relationship was once good. We felt happy. The same thoughts that once put a smile to our face, now flow the stream of tears down our cheeks. We are suddenly convinced that those are bad thoughts, and we adjust our behaviours to align with the new feelings.

Sometimes, we confuse missing someone with hating someone. It is okay to miss someone that we may never have in our life anymore. Let the truth be truth because it is sad to have to lie to ourselves.

Effects of Low Self-Esteem

Self-Discovery Self-discovery is a lifelong journey. We may never fully understand ourselves. We may expand knowledge acquisition which may enhance our skills in assessing our life experiences more effectively, and provide perceptive insights into our life and behaviors; we may never completely comprehend the full aspects of life because being the ‘being’ is an evolutionary motion. We change from time…

Pre-requisites – Dating the Aspie Girls

Being single has its advantages, but it also entails many Q&A, and I don’t score well in Q&A – basically, unless the questions are concise, I may misinterpret it and result in giving irrelevant answers. I am not looking to date. I mean, the idea of falling in love and being in love is nice, but if there is anything…

Nature Republic Whitening Collagen Dream Mask Sheet

I do love mask sheet, and I have been happy with Nature Republic, especially with their aloe gel – seriously good stuff with tiny price tag! This Nature Republic Whitening Collagen Dream Mask Sheet is a free sample that comes with purchase. I tried last night, and I love it. The Missy’s Say: [Scent] Subtle floral scent, very pleasant. [Texture] Sticky…

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