Perfectly Imperfect

The goal is not to be perfect; the goal is to be accepted for the imperfections.

Tag: friendship

Asperger’s Diary – Time Dilution During Meltdown

Time concept changes for the person in the meltdown, and the person waiting. This post illustrates the differences and the possible outcomes. Some outcomes are undesired, and permanent. Meltdown is detrimental to any kind of relationship.

We must not confuse understanding the essence of the meltdown with the instinctive reactions to it. By illuminating the adverse effects of meltdowns, I hope to raise awareness in preventing meltdown than to manage it. Every meltdown can be potentially the last one because practise doesn’t make perfect.

Asperger’s Diary: Homosapiens’ Love and Human Nature

Human Nature – Learned and Automated Responses

Let’s dabble in the subject on Human Nature a little bit. By the time you finished reading the story, you may be formulating your own judgement and conclusion, yes?

See, that is human nature. We think that this story is about a problem needed to be fixed, but this is really just a story needs to be examined and understood.

Human nature, sometimes generally grouped as primal instinct, is based largely on precedent assumptions – learned behaviours. A grossly overrated excuse for poor behaviours or reluctance in personal growth.

We are attracted to the opinionated other until we are in love and a different opinion suddenly becomes an opposing tool because it’s unbearable to think he/she thinks otherwise. When we accept that the change in chemistry is actually a good thing, and acknowledge that such change is only because two people care so much about each other; we will not see difference as difference, but as interestingness; like it has always been. Un-break the broken nature, embrace the wisdom of broadening the perception, and looking at the larger picture, then, love abounds!

Effects of Low Self-Esteem

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Art of Letter Writing – Royal Seal

I guess there is indeed a rebel in me. I defy times; not all of it, but some. With the advanced technology pushing life forward and faster, the art of letter writing is dying, if not dead. Letter writing, is as personal as it can get. Internet and everything that follows have undoubtedly help push efficiency and productivity up many…

Identity Crisis | Aspie Diary

Are you familiar with Identity Crisis? Personally, I think this could be a growing phenomenon in today’s society. If we were to study the developmental stages of different generations – baby boomers, Gen X, Gen Y aka Millennial, we may observe trends of behavioral adjustments and developmental markers. Say, Gen-Xers see the changes from booming of a technology to rocket fast…

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